In our culture of constant connection, ideas and opinions are hard to escape. Themes once considered taboo are digested with drinks in the pub or hung on the wall of social media noise. However, if it dies, the conversation will be cold. We receive death completely unprepared. Despite his certainty, death remains discouraging and easy conversation. In retrospect, we speak of death as it happens in others. We do not talk about our own death. We do not understand our possibilities. Strangely, we do not want to acknowledge the inevitable.
According to Kevin Sinclair, a second generation embalmer, our culture approaches death by denial. "There is a feeling that if you do not talk about death, it does not happen … I'm not afraid of death, it's death and taxes, it happens to all of us," he says.
Demystifying At the end of life, I spoke to Sinclair, who spent most of his life in the funeral service, completing 40,000 embalming cases. From green burials to the embalming process, he gives insights into the business of death and the importance of discussing death in life:
Funeral service and funeral are an important step for family and friends.
"It helps to deal with the loss," says Sinclair. This is especially important in situations where death is unexpected. "If someone has killed themselves, there are mixed feelings, or if it is a quick death, then there is a shock, and [the service] helps people cope with death."
Recent posts relate to the preparation of the deceased for burial or cremation.
The options range from bathing the body and closing the eyes to complete embalming.
On average, the bodies are buried or cremated two weeks after death, even in death there is life Admin. In order to formally arrest death, he must be registered by the registrar for births, deaths and marriages. This also applies to babies born dead after the 24th week of pregnancy. To complete the registration, a medical certificate stating the cause of death must be submitted. Depending on the place of death, the medical certificate can be issued by a hospital doctor or general practitioner. After registration, the registrar will issue a green certificate, which allows the funeral.
The cremation must be signed by two doctors before the body is taken to the crematorium.
"knows the history of the deceased, the second doctor should check and confirm that again," says Sinclair. It may take some time for the paperwork to be okay. "If you can imagine getting a doctor with a strenuous operation, it could take two to three days to see her."
Embalming is the preservation of the body and is used when burial or cremation are not possible immediately after death.
"We have a scale of necessary treatments based on conservation, hygiene and presentation," he says. The approach is adapted to the needs of the deceased. "We can take care of someone for a few days, a few weeks or months, whatever is needed."
The embalmer must know the cause of death and history to properly treat the body and to ensure that the preservative fluid does not further adulterate the body. "This is where the skills of the bearer are important, it's not just about the anatomy, it's also about the chemistry, in life the bacteria that we remove help with digestion, in death there's nothing left to digest, to start looking around. .. it starts to deteriorate and the body is decomposed back into its natural components. "
The most difficult part of embalming is children.
"Or someone who is in your care and a known person ̵
There are indeed green burials.
These advocate the use of products and processes that minimize the environmental impact of burials. These include ethically produced, locally produced coffins, no grave stones and no embalming. At the request of the individual, funeral service technicians can provide facial presentation, dressing and mild cosmetics.
The funeral industry is constantly changing.
"There's a lot to learn from the films," says Sinclair. "There are new ways in which cosmetics are used, restorative arts, airbrushing, limb and eye reconstruction, which is always necessary for people to say goodbye."
Hair and nails do not grow after death.
"[It’s] a common misconception," says Sinclair. "The skin is dehydrated – the nails no longer grow, it's the retracting skin that makes the look of hair and fingernails a little longer."
Working in the funeral service is rewarding.
"Originally I wanted to become a graphic designer, and I had many goals, from starting my own business to running the school," says Sinclair. "But the funeral service grabs you, you're devoured … you wink and you have ten years … that takes over your life It's not just 9-5, it's 24/7 As far as I'm concerned, that's just me a guy trying to help people. "