So you already have your labia jewelry – where are you from? Well, if you have recently (or are planning to do so in the near future), a new trend indicates that you would like to look at umbilical cord jewelry, as the New York Post reported last week . Really.
Umbilical jewelry is exactly what it sounds like, and there are several jewelry designers offering this service.
Ruth Avra, 39, a classically trained metalworker and jeweler, tells SELF that she started making jewelery in 201
2 after the birth of her son.
Avra's girlfriend gave her the umbilical cord of her baby in 2011 and "she asked me to do something with it, but I had no idea what to do" Avra says, so she simply held on. After her son was born, she looked at his stump next to the one her boyfriend had given her and "knew instantly what I needed to do". She was particularly impressed by the differences between the two, she said, forcing her to think beyond her locksmith's training and become creative, turn her into jewelry. "These are really organic pieces – no two are the same anywhere," she says.
After making one for herself and one for her friend in a necklace, "I suddenly made it for all my friends," she says. She sells them online and has since expanded her product line to include baby teeth, baby's first haircut, hospital bracelets, and cremated ashes.
Nianna Rodriguez, 28, had a similar idea about five years ago. "I wanted to somehow do something for myself after having my first daughter," she tells SELF. And after a few tries and attempts Rodriguez found that she finally found a technique that works. From there she sharpened her skills and began with the online sale along with other inclusion jewelry and homemade soap made from mother's milk. "My mother actually makes the soap cold in an old-fashioned way," she says.
The jewelry may not be for everyone and that's fine! – but it can also be an incredibly special piece for others.
"The reason why I wear my son's and my daughter's, the reason I make them, is literally the connection between mother and child," explains Avra. "That's how your baby gets food as it grows – it's the literal and figurative connection between mother and child, and once it's gone, the physical connection is gone."
Many parents hang onto the umbilical cord without really knowing what to do with it, she says. And instead of letting it sit on a shelf somewhere in a baby book for decades or in a box, why not turn it into something more interesting?
Similarly, Rodriguez says that her project was born out of her desire to have a "personal memory" of remembering this time of year, having small children and barely having time to take a shower. "Many of her clients just want to honor their baby or their pregnancy, she says, and for those who have had a challenging pregnancy or whose babies were born dead, the jewelry can be a particularly significant symbol.
If you're interested, To make jewelry from your baby's umbilical stump, you do not necessarily have to do anything special save storing it in a safe place.
During pregnancy, the umbilical cord is the way to provide your baby with nutrients and oxygen Once your baby is born, it no longer needs it, so it will be cut off and leave a small stump.
After childbirth, it is important that you cleanse and care for the umbilical stump according to your top day / gyn or pediatrician's instructions, while it is still connected, Mary Jane Minkin, MD, says ob / gyn at Yale-New Haven Hospital, opposite SELF It's usually the case to keep the area dry and clean, which may be easier with sponge baths, says the Mayo Clinic . After all, the stump usually falls off one to three weeks after birth. And although it is best when it's done, let it fall off by itself, but you can help it by exposing it to air to dry it out.
But from there you just have to hold on to it. One day I want to turn it into jewelry. Avra and Rodriguez both say they are impressed by how long the stumps remain usable. Rodriguez says she used a 17-year-old man, and Avra says she is 20 years old. So the birth of your baby does not necessarily have to be new to get a unique keepsake.