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When you are introverted, social situations can require a high level of concentration and energy, wh I can make new people more challenging In a thread about Reddit, introverts told the unconventional stories of how they met their romantic partners – and frankly, some sound like romantic comedies.
Take this pair, for example, who was shy but whose dogs were not: "We met in the dog park. We had talked more with each other (our dogs were immediately the best friends) and I always thought – is it weird that we always go at the same time? He will think that I do it on purpose. So I started making sure that I either went before him or waited until after he left … It turned out that he was I purposely go at the same time as myself. We are sick now, and our dogs are inseparable.
This is literally the plot of 101 Dalmations is not it? Then there was this self-proclaimed nerd whose interests helped him find a girlfriend (assisted by a third-party mediator): "When I was with a roommate He started dating a girl. When she saw a 3D printer in my bedroom, she said & # 39; oh! My super nerdy best friend would like to talk to you about 3D printing and other nerdy crap! & # 39;
Having someone to play as a matchmaker is a common theme in the thread, as it becomes even more difficult if the person you fall in love is also introverted or shy.Who takes the first step? Often the romance was based that the person in question had a sympathetic friend who introduced them or even set them up. "A mutual friend has noticed that we are basically the same person and has made considerable efforts to persuade us to talk to each other" A person recalls, "She was right!"
And it's perhaps not surprising that many introverts on the internet have made remarkable achievements in finding someone who suits them – especially forums and Online communities where they feel comfortable enough to feel themselves and share things They are passionate about.
"We are both gamers, "says one such commentator. "We were part of the same guild in a MMORPG and have been making friends with some friends for years and the friends kept telling us we might like each other, we kept denying it one day, a few years. " Some time ago, when we completed a small level together, he asked me. I was scared, reluctant, but I said yes. A few years later and he is my future husband. "
There's even Minecraft coupling out there, and if that gives you no hope, I do not know what's going to happen.