It's not often that you meet your best friend through a Craigslist ad. It is rarer that this friendship survives a reality TV series. But that's exactly what happened to Vanderpump Rules stars and longtime friends Tom Schwartz and Tom Sandoval when they met in Los Angeles years ago. Fast forward to the present day, and the two are now business partners in the newly opened Tom Tom restaurant and bar in West Hollywood. This all unfolds in the latest season of the show, it's the seventh. Over the years, we've seen Tom's ups and downs in her romantic relationships and working life, but when there was a constant in that beautiful jumble of a show (which we're not afraid to admit that we were completely drawn into) It's the toms as an example of male friendship. In honor of the new season of Vanderpump Rules and the long-awaited arrival of Tom Tom, here are 6 lessons on how to be a good friend we can take the best couple on the show.
1: This time Sandoval surprised Schwartz with a family reunion
Hanging out and celebrating with your best friend is fun and all-but when did you last do something selfless for her? In the fifth season, Schwartz talked about his three triplets being filthy, with only a cell phone between them, and that they could not afford to attend his wedding. Sandoval (and his colleague Jax) had made it their mission to get the three brothers on a plane and fly to California so they could see their brother marry. It was unnecessary, today there were many tears when the surprise showed. Schwartz said it was "the best thing anyone has ever done for me". While you do not necessarily have to make such a great gesture, putting your best friend first and putting your hand to one's aid is sometimes a great way.
2: At that time, Sandoval held for Schwartz when no one had his back
The fifth season was a hotbed of emotion for Tom Schwartz when he was accused by his fiancée Katie and everyone else that he was unfaithful to her. Although he admitted that he "came out" with a girl two years ago, he said it never went any further. The rest of the Vanderpump crew did not believe him and made it difficult for him in the first episodes of the season. In a group vacation, Sandoval had enough of the group's attack mentality and defended his best friend in the midst of the rumors. He said that Schwartz was not meant to be bombarded and that everyone should leave the guy alone. And all in a drag costume and strong make-up. The lesson: Stay with your friend, as if you would stand up for yourself, even if he does not want to do it himself.
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3: At that time, Sandoval gave a dreary toast to Schwartz & # 39; s wedding
Because Sandoval had not held back his tears throughout the series, he gave an emotional toast to his wedding to his best friend A room full of people explaining why Schwartz is the type nobody would love in his mind. Whether your best friend marries or not and you want to make a toast at your wedding, a good friend will make sure your bestie knows how much he means to them from time to time. You can do this simply as a text or as a toast at a birthday dinner. Even if you think you already know that you feel that way, and sometimes you hear these things out loud to cement the bond – read below
In the fourth season, we see how Schwartz Sandoval in detail explains how he will propose the love of his life. If there is ever a time to be a good friend and keep a secret, then it is definitely when it comes to a possible commitment. Best friends know when to shut up and when it comes to life-changing milestones like these. Your best friend will be honored that you have decided to share something as monumental as this one with them. It shows that your trust in them is deep and that you value their input.
5: At that time, Sandoval handed over his Tom # 1 ranking to Schwartz
Sandoval was always the self-proclaimed "Tom # 1" in his friendship, something that Schwartz had left him playful. But during Schwartz's bachelor party getaway, Sandoval decided to grant this honor to Schwartz by removing his "Tom # 1" T-shirt and handing it to Schwartz (including a "Tom # 2" T-shirt). While this particular act of friendship is a play with the fact that they have the same first name, it is even more amazing how Sandoval turns a carefree joke between the two into something sentimental. If you feel you are the most open-minded of your friends, you are sometimes afraid to share the limelight. Humility and selflessness always go a long way.
6: That Time Schwartz escorted Sandoval to the spa
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It's no secret that Sandoval has a peculiar self-care program – does anyone else shave his head? Between the man's bun, the body tanner and the eyebrow threading, the man spends a lot of free time keeping the appearance. Which means that Schwartz hangs with his buddy, he often goes along. Now the two best friends are doing monthly wellness trips to get massages and visit the steam bath. While some people make fun of the idea of taking office travel to the spa, these guys are sure enough that such activities are just as useful as watching a football match over a plate with wings. If you and your best friend like to do something and do things together, others will feel embarrassed, be sure to live your best life, and do it because you love it.