- Cheesy pick-up lines do not work, stick to old school
- Smiling and smiling!
Have you always ended up being a creep, when you were just trying to impress the girl? Do not worry, you are not alone. A lot of guys approaching women with an intent to impress Flirting can be quickly transformed from being cute to becoming cheesy. And nobody wants that. If you go too far then you might be considered a disrespectful person.
Here's a guide to flirting with a woman in the most respectful manner. It may strike a healthy conversation between you two and lead to a start of something new and amazing.
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Approach Her Right
It's a thousand times better approach to a woman's like "Hey! How are you? "Instead of using a cheesy pick-up line which can get you rejected in no time. The best way to approach a girl is being yourself. Approach in a polite and respectful way. Most girls like them when they approach them in a direct way. Moreover, if you get rejected, just stop right there – do not go there.
Direct eye contact. Creepy, which you obviously do not want. Smile when your eyes meet.
So, do not forget to notice her gestures, hand movements, et cetera – her body language can tell you if she's into you. Keep watching during the conversation to figure out your next move but please do not stare.
You Should Be a Good Listener
Well, this should be a no-brainer. As much as you like to talk about yourself, others like that too. Listen to what she says, do not pretend it's not so hard to figure out if a person is actually listening to you or not. If you are listening carefully then she will definitely want to talk to you more. So, listen.
Who does not like a smiling face? You might fail at a flirting but a genuine smile is enough to show that you are into and want to take this forward. A smile shows confidence and she wants to know that you are a nice guy who is just trying to get better.
As human beings, we all love appreciation and getting compliments. Giving a compliment is a great way to make the girl fall for you. But make sure it's a genuine compliment and not something you're just making up.
So read: Why you keep attracting the wrong people
Take Away …
While there's no definite rule to flirting, there's a thin line between being flirty and being creepy , You must know what might seem pleasant and what not.
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Written by: Arushi Bidhuri
Source: Onlymyhealth editorial team Jan 21, 2019