When Alex Trebek announced yesterday that he had been diagnosed with advanced pancreatic cancer, he received support as fans recalled their favorite moments, "Jeopardy!" From his nearly 35-year run shared. Send him love and congratulations because he is getting a very challenging illness.
The reaction was no surprise – Trebek is as universally popular as a public figure can be. But as he shared the news was slightly different. Instead of posting a story on the news media, he went straight to the fans with his YouTube announcement. He opened up by emphasizing his "long-standing policy of open and transparent behavior" and his desire "to prevent them from reading or listening to some overdrawn or inaccurate reports of my health". He made a clear and deliberate decision and then said, "I wanted to pass on this information."
Most of us will never have to publicly announce a cancer diagnosis, but Trek continues to say that there are 50,000 in the United States each year People diagnosed with pancreatic cancer alone are diagnosed, but in the grace and dignity that Trebek showed in his announcement, we can all learn something about delivering difficult news.
"If we can share difficult news with others, it's more crucial Meaning that we first find as much grounding in ourselves as possible, "says Paul L. Hokemeyer, a clinical and counseling psychotherapist." This does not mean that we need to be in a place of full acceptance, but we need to spend some time with it to own the news before we can pass it on to others. "
Trebek notes that he received his diagnosis this week. and admits that it is "not very encouraging". He addresses the low survival rates and his chances; He is not an alarmist, but he puts his cards on the table. Hokemeyer promotes this clarity and directness, which can often take a while in extreme experiences. In the case of cancer, he says, "Use this label. Illnesses are tagged because the labels provide guidance about treatment history and outcomes.
If you are open about cancer, you can educate others about the disease. Leonard Lichtenfeld, deputy chief physician of the National Bureau of the American Cancer Society, noted that [pancreatic cancer] is often caught late in life when the symptoms appear but the treatment is more difficult. "Lord, the Trebek disease," he wrote, "gives us the opportunity to reflect on the fact that we need to learn a lot about the early detection and treatment of patients with pancreatic cancer."
And no matter what illness this has Trebek spoke with dignity and clarity, but also confirmed the emotional connection between him and his fans and said, "Help me, keep faith and we'll win, we'll make it, thank you."
Hokemeyer praises this openness and camaraderie and says: "Do not be afraid to show your emotions, your weaknesses or give and receive hugs Diseases thrive in isolation and you are comforted and healed in warm, supportive and authentic relationships with other people. "Even if we have to communicate bad news, we can reaffirm the importance of these relationships and the find common strength to move forward.